Did you ever notice that there seems to be days that start out on a bad note and it seems to just continue that way…right down to getting stopped by every red light and heavy traffic when you are already on a time crunch?? Or vice versa everything seems to be going your way and you feel as though you might as well buy a lottery ticket because your chances of winning just got that much better!!
Why do we wait to see how our day is going to determine the results we will achieve? Why do WE allow our day to be determined by other ‘things’ or other ‘people?’ What if I told you that whether you believe or not in karma, energy, or the universe bringing you what you put out there; I could teach you TANGIBLE skills and tools to arm yourself with the power to predetermine your day, your productivity, your results? I am not talking about mantras or superstitions but I am talking about the power and strength of your mind. Your mind has the power to harm yourself and others around you but it has even more power to take control of yourself and the influence you have over others including the outcomes and results you end up with every day!
In my upcoming book, based off of my seminar, “SYNERGY: The Power of Color, Language, & Physiology,” I teach these tangible tools and my clients are empowered every day, without reliance on me to remind them, how to determine what approach they must take for their day and what actions they must take to ensure the results THEY want. The best part, like any muscle, the more they use these tools I teach them and leave them with, the stronger they become, naturally. Taking control of their lives, their actions, their results, and every time building more confidence to do even more than they ever imagined they could do. Without pain or drastic changes.
Want more balance between your personal and professional life? I hear this often but the truth is that we find what people really want is to have more balance of their confidence in both areas. It is natural that we are either more confident professionally or personally. But the true Power is unleashed when these are aligned together at their maximum potential.
a. The first step in improving your confidence and self-esteem is to stop doubting yourself! Doubt can bring anyone down, even to a level of anxiety or depression; so to Stop doubting, we can gain just as much power but in a positive direction!
b. Stand tall, speak clearly, have a perceived firm handshake, and never doubt the power of a smile!
c. Have a “go-to” professional outfit. One you feel the most confident in.
d. Prepare what you will say in advance. Even in the briefest meeting, we only have one chance for a good first impression. By practicing your contribution, no matter the size, you will ease any potential anxiety, avoid hesitations in your speech, and overall appear more polished & professional. This will also naturally increase your confidence and self-esteem.